Saturday, May 26, 2007

Family Acticities

One of the best and most different thing I got after back at home is FAMILY ACTIVITIES. Previously, I spend most of my weekend working, shopping, exercising, and pampering myself like SPA, facial, manicure and pedicure. In the past 4 months, half of my weekends are with my family - my big family.

The first weekend of this month, we had a gathering to celebrate Mother's day though it's supposed to be 2nd Sunday of May as my cousins who are married need to be back with their in-lows. Besides, that Sat happened to be my father's birthday. So we really had a big gathering and the best thing back at home is the FOOD, the fresh seafood that I can't find anywhere else.
Happy Birthday!
Family Activity
Fresh Seafood
Hard Working
That Sunday, we visited a osmanthus fragrans farm at Shr Ding (石碇) and tried the Osmanthus Fragrans meal which is quite interesting. My two nephews really had a lot of fun as it's so much fun to have a big group of family going out together.
My Nephew
Happy Nephew
Last Sun, I met up with another group of cousins. Time really flies. All of them to me are my little younger brothers and sisters in my memory but now all of them are all grown up and mature. Guess that's life I would say.
Cusions
Though I still need to work most of the Sat, I would still try to arrange time for myself and for my family. 24 hours are just not enough!!

Thursday, May 03, 2007

無法平凡

五一勞動節放假
原本不覺得我也屬於勞動階級
不過想想我們心力上的勞動程度
是也該放個假休息一下

雖然放假不過下午還是進了辦公室處理點事情
傍晚回家路上
就繞進了那我許久不曾造訪的誠品信義店
做了我久違了的書香之旅

其中有本書挑起了我的注意力
韮沢明子的"我承認我心動了"


無法平凡

見到我的人,
應該會說我是個女強人吧!
但你見到我,
應該會說我是個弱女子吧!
在你面前, 再怎麼樣,
我的舉止都無法像平常一樣,
你是喜歡上那個我呢?

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

取捨

人生是由一連串的決定與取捨所組成
而決定就是一種取捨

沒有任何事情會是完美的
套個經濟學的術語
衡量輕重及取捨就是希望能夠取得最高的效用
因為這其中變動的因素不少

而近來因為生活上的轉變
我也開始思考一些取捨的問題
很多事情跟我原本想像或計畫中的很不一樣
不能說這樣是不好
畢竟之前的我可能只侷限在一定的框架中
而沒有想到一些不同的可能性

但就因為這些轉變
我必須開始思考我原本設定的東西到底是不是最好的
改變就代表著幾個因素的異動
當然這其中有好有壞
需要思考的就是這些好壞最後的總合會是怎樣
還有哪些是不能被改變及犧牲的原則與因素

或許因為年齡的增長及考慮的範圍及因素的擴大
我發覺腦袋裡思考的東西越來越多
但我覺得這是個好現象
因為這代表了我的成長及邁入人生中下個階段的預先準備
是該好好思考一下了